11x LOVE Method

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Sections 1-4 Are the 11x LOVE Code Masterclass
Section 5 is the 11x LOVE LaB Community

Through our proven framework, you'll experience a total identity, mindset, heartset and skill transformation across all 11 dimensions of life, guided by ancient wisdom, modern science, sound money and fueled by LOVE.

The future of a more peaceful and empowered holistically harmonious life is LOVE based 

NOT just:

Mindset 

Mission

Movement

Money

Mysticism

Neurobiology

Physical 

Relationship

Productivity

Purpose

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It’s ALL of the above rooted in LOVE 

It’s ALL of the above anchored in LOVE

It’s ALL of the above connected to LOVE

It’s ALL of the above serving LOVE

It’s ALL of the above fueled by LOVE

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And it's ALL of the above interconnected and a holistic system where everything impacts everything in YOUR life system aka your HOS - Human Operating System. 

Remember my goal is to help you change the way you look at your personal growth and manifesting.

What Makes This Different

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The 11x LOVE Method isn't just another course that ends up in the course graveyard with no results.

It's a complete Human Operating System upgrade with “God” in the center of your "HOS". (God, Universe, Source, Creator, etc) 

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It is a holistic, integrated, and sustainable lifestyle.

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(and it's Value for Value 2.0 using Bitcoin and gamification - I'll explain below) 

Many “coaching” models like the Wheel of Life have “God” as a separate segment or NOT even integrated at all.

Why is this SO important?

First, I’ll share a little story that perhaps you can relate to.

9 years ago, I was stuck at the very rock bottom of Dr. David R. Hawkins “Scale of Consciousness"

Never in a million years would I have imagined that I would SNAP! and completely fall apart. I was a Supermom (cape included), loving devoted wife, good daughter, entrepreneur, PTO president, badass DJ, sailor, yogi, and loyal friend. 

All in a matter of months these events happened:

• Midlife sexual crisis and big relationship issues

• Moving from warm island home to stranger in a cold town

• Dealing with Alzheimer’s parent

• New business stress and overwhelm

• Suffered in silence

• Thought it was just a phase and I could get myself out 

• Too proud and embarrassed to ask for help

• Hormone imbalance thyroid/ pre-menopause

• Terrible sleep issues

• Anxiety and depression

Leaving me feeling:

• Afraid and alone

• Unappreciated and lost

• Worthless and useless

• Trapped and powerless

• Guilty and ASHAMED

Sadly I let my life fall apart and like the Twin Towers, it completely exploded and disintegrated.

Because:

• All of these stressors happening at the same time 

• Not having the fully-developed coping skills and stronger daily practice

• Not seeing aligned and proper professionals

• Lack of appropriate community support

• The debilitating shame and not having the courage to say these 3 magic words 

“I Need HELP” 

I ended up:

• Drinking like a sailor on shore leave to numb it all

• Hurting my family and loved ones

• Divorcing from a 14 year mostly awesome marriage

• Near-death from a suicide attempt thinking my family would be better off without my messy ass

• Rehab (MeHab as I now affectionately refer to it as) 

• Discovering even more childhood sexual trauma

• Spiritual re-awakening

• Painfully remodeling my life from the inside out 

As well intentioned as therapists are, like an auto mechanic, when you see a car that is basically about to explode or has just been in a 7 car pile-up, you don’t work on it for an hour and tell your customer to drive it home and come back once a week to work on it.  

That would be dangerous and ineffective. 

Sadly that is the state of most therapeutic practices

hence not amazing results.

Great for maintenance and washing the car but not for severe damage to the whole vehicle. 
 

Even though, after the SNAP! I initially needed more intensive life remodeling and healing - aka deep body work and repair at the “shop”, I knew the key to long-lasting holistic wellness and empowerment would be anchored in how I live each moment of my life every single day.

I knew I needed some type of daily practice that was easy and engaging enough that I could remember all the steps to do on 1 hand yet detailed enough to cover all the bases of life.

I knew I needed a better way to manage all of the massive life changes in a holistic way that didn’t take up 10 hours a day and thousands of dollars a week.

I needed….

A daily holistic wellness and empowerment practice, but not just any practice.

The 3 biggest issues I ran across as a now single-mompreneur were:

“Dang this takes way too much time, too much money, and the programs are not comprehensive and integrative in all 11 areas of life ”

I didn’t have the time, money or energy to go to a daily yoga, meditation, dance, coaching, trauma and talk therapy, business workshops, my work, and 12-step meetings  (I’ll explain the pros and cons below and why I quit 12-step and started developing the 11x LOVE Method). 

AND be a Supermom to my 2 most important humans on Earth. 

One of the many inspirations for the 11x LOVE Method came from my trial and error with all the personal and professional programs I was doing (I spent over 6-figures and 5000 hours over 8 years) - one important one was the 12-step program which I found to be amazing in some senses and extremely disempowering in others. 

Pros of 12-Steps

I loved the methodical steps and the framework of peer-to-peer support, sponsor/sponsee support, decentralized consistency anywhere in the world, shared struggle around specific issues (alcohol, gambling, sex, drugs, debt, food), and a compassionate community.

Cons of 12-Steps

The diseased label and identity of “I am an _____”  porn addict, alcoholic, workaholic, gambling addict, overeater, etc was toxic to my soul since I believe and know my only true identity is a beloved child of God.

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How could one expect to outgrow and evolve from past behaviors if identified as a “diseased label”?

There are many studies done on “Labeling Theory” with ex-convicts who have paid their debt to society in jail but when returning to the real world when labeled as ex-con vs not being labeled, they are exponentially more likely to internalize that identity, face community challenges, then get repeat offenses and be reincarcerated.

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“The strongest force in the universe is the need for a human being to live in consistency with his identity”

Tony Robbins 

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When these 12-step groups are consistently telling you, in addition to you repeating out loud daily in front of others, that you are broken and diseased, addicted and incurable, chances are way higher that you will eventually relapse into that diseased identity. (50% of 12-step members relapse) 

I could not accept that as a way toward my beautiful future life and healed self. 

I am grateful for the lessons of 12-step for sure but knew for sure I was not a “diseased label”.

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It does not mean that I should go out and practice self-medicating behaviors like drinking alcohol again but it did free me from the terrible, shame-filled labels. 

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There is typically unhealed childhood trauma causing these behavior and thought patterns and highly skilled professionals are needed to help resolve these debilitating wounds.

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I believe one must be brave and know thyself, do deep healing work, AND do deep visionary work in the form of the 11x LOVE Code. 

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Bill W. changed the world with 12-Steps and for many this program is a lifesaver and that is amazing!

But I believe it's time for an evolved, holistic 3.0 version that people would be proud to wear a T-Shirt and shout from the rooftops that they are doing deep, meaningful personal growth and building new habits so they can rock their Divine Life Missions. ​

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So as a LOVE Hacker, I ventured out to go even deeper and test and implement different practices, modalities, theories, therapies, methods, etc - leading to those 5000 hours and over 6-figures of investment to create a path that worked for me and now I want to share it with you so you don’t have to go through all of that time, frustration and expense. 

However this is not a shortcut to results. 

You must do the work.  

Every day.

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Just like brushing your teeth. 

How many days this week did you go without brushing your teeth? 

None I imagine. 

(If so, stop reading this, go brush your teeth and come back afterward.)

Your Daily LOVE Power Practice deserves the same commitment.

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Once I connected the dots and realized EVERYTHING was my responsibility and that EVERYTHING in my life and ALL of life is an infinitely interconnected SYSTEM where each area impacts ALL areas. 

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BOOM! Big AHA moment. 

I realized I had been neglecting certain areas too long and focusing on others too much leading to a TOTAL SYSTEM COLLAPSE

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I realized I was out of HARMONY (not balance because balance is BS) in all 11 areas of my life. 

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I realized what I do or do not do in 1 area of my life - my SYSTEM impacts EVERY area - nothing is untouched. It may not be immediate consequences of each action, but over time each area of life is impacted. 

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So the awesome news is that YOU are in control baby. Of ALL 11 areas!

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The 11x LOVE Method is a comprehensive, creative, and doable roadmap and community for your journey toward more LOVE each day in your one and only blessed life.

The good news is, it is like a choose your adventure game where you mix and match the experiences to get your desired outcome based on your unique needs at the time.

Rather than being only focused on the results, you also get to fall in LOVE with the process of creating the life of your dreams. 

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“It’s about the journey NOT the destination” 

As a sailor and former USCG Chartboat Captain,  the above quote is one thing I always shared with my students because they would get impatient and want to get “There”. 

“There” is an illusion. 

HERE and NOW is actually the only true moment and place so enjoy the present and the process because it is a gift and it is the ONLY reality there is. 

Everything else is either in the past or future which are constructs that cause anxiety, depression, remorse, frustration, etc so why would you want to go and live “There”? 

So along this glorious journey using the 11x LOVE Method and playing the Game of LOVE, the best part is NO area of your life gets accidentally neglected leading to another system crash.  

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Actual footage of me leaving my last relationship when I didn't follow my 11x LOVE Code

Tripod for God

“God”

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​​Remember what I said earlier about why it is SO important to have “God” at the center of your life? 

I used to be allergic to the word "God" and would say Universe, Source, The Divine, The Field, Great Spirit, Creator, LOVE, etc to refer to God. 

I always considered myself “spiritual not religious” and I still do. 

I believe the stories of all religions are valuable and have something to teach us and it is up to us to decide if we resonate with one or the other or all of the above. 

That is a personal choice.

One that is yours and yours alone. 

I happened to receive the gift of direct experience with God that transformed me permanently.

Exit Stage Left:

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After waking up cold, naked, alone, and my hair filled with chunks of vomit in a hotel 8 years ago from trying to exit the planet because I thought everyone would be better off without me and my giant mess, I got a visit from God.  (I’ll share the whole backstory in the LOVE Lab) 

I begged God not to let me die and not to let my children lose their mommy and in exchange I was told to help others not go through what I had just suffered from. 

Total disharmony and collapse of my body, mind, soul, and relationships. 

I eagerly agreed and after years of prep I finally feel ready to honor that promise. 

Everything I do revolves around, through, and from God which I also call LOVE. 

"God is my supply" 

Philippians 4:19

I still make mistakes, have blind spots, old traumas get triggered, old patterns need reprogramming, and old thinking needs debugging yet I am working on evolving and healing each and every day. 

I don’t imagine I will ever be done with the evolution of my soul.

Sometimes my soul falls asleep at the wheel and my ego and fears creep in again and start to try to fill my “soul-hole” with the 5’Ds, Diamonds, Drugs, Donuts, Digital and D!cks. 

There’s a great song called “Jesus Take the Wheel” by Carrie Underwood 

It reminds me to stop struggling to do everything on my own and to turn it over to God because there is only 1 thing that will ever fill that “soul-hole” and it is LOVE aka God. 

God in our hearts is the ultimate gift and since God is the giver, rejoice in God being the greatest giver and the greatest gift.

It seems so simple yet easier said than done to undo all of our mental models, traumas, and old programs, aka "old code". 

It is a never-ending journey here on Earth and we all come with what one of my teachers calls a “spiritual curriculum”. 

My belief is that the main curriculum is LOVE and we get to play and learn about it each and every day. 

Not only when sitting in meditation in the morning but each and every second of every single day is our spiritual practice, The Game of LOVE. 

So I like to make things more fun and we learn and retain information best through repetitive play like singing, movement, and games. 

When we look at things as a chore and bore rather than with curiosity and wonder, the experience, no matter what it is, can be unappealing and low vibe. 

Why not use our God-given human gift of creativity and imagination and make it playful like a game like Florence Scovel-Shinn reminds us in her timeless classic "The Game of Life"? 

A game that never ends and one with no winner or losers, just a fun game to play, like dancing at a rave or festival.  You just do it to do it not because you win something. 

It is the ultimate in presence and being here NOW.

So why not make the next chapter of your life transformation like dancing at Burningman under the full moon with like-hearted souls? 

No attachment to the outcome, just fully immersed in the present moment, enjoying the process with beauty, faith, hope and LOVE. 

And I am here to serve as your “Spiritual Sherpa” who has walked the treacherous path a few times before you to help you along the long and winding journey.

Most importantly God is my Co-Founder and every single thing I share and teach is because of God’s direct messages to my heart and to all of my teachers who have shared their wisdom here on Earth. 

Not just authors, teachers, coaches, Jesus, Buddha, Lao Tzu, or others,  but the laughter of children, the tears of elderly, the smile of a stranger, the blossoming of a flower. 

Every interaction with every living being since birth is a

“Lesson and a Blessing”

That is why WE, my Co-Founder and I created the The 11x LOVE Method which consists of:

• 11x LOVE Code Masterclass

• 11x LOVE LaB Community(Lessons and Blessings)

• 11x Game of LOVE (app coming soon) 

• 11x LOVE LAWS (Love Always Wins- book coming soon)

Here's what you'll learn

In This 5-Step Transformational Masterclass, You Will:

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BREAKTHROUGH
Discover and Define
[SNAP! Start Now Align Purpose]

• Your Divine Life Mission + Values + Beliefs

• ​Know Thyself - MEhd + HOS( Human Operating System)

• DJ/Warrior/Rockstar/Creator/Hacker Identity
   

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BREAKDOWN
Be a Detective - WTF Just Happened
[SNAP! Start Now Assess Problem]

• ReConnect With the Divine

• Admit + Audit All 11 Areas of Life 

• 1st Obituary: Coulda, Shoulda, Woulda

Why Choose Me as Your Guide?

Aloha! My name is Valerie B LOVE, and I will be your "Spiritual Sherpa"