
What is the 11x LOVE Method?
A Spiritual Holistic Framework for High Achievers Who Desire Consistent Harmony and Empowerment in All 11 Dimensions of Life.
Aloha~
I want to share something I created because I was desperate and nothing else worked.
You know that frazzled feeling when you're grinding so hard in one area of your life and everything else is falling apart like shattered glass on a shiny marble floor? When you look successful on paper but you're barely holding it together hoping no one pulls back the curtain to see what’s really going on? When you've tried therapy, courses, coaches, 12-step, masterminds, crystals, essential oils, psychedelics, vision boards, and ALL the things... but nothing actually sticks?
Yeah. I've been there. Rock bottom there. Attempted suicide there. Lost everything there.
And I don’t want that to happen to you. Or anyone.
So what I learned after investing over $150K in my own healing and trying literally everything under the sun, is this:
You can't fix a holistic problem with disconnected single-issue solutions.
That's why I created the 11x LOVE Method.
Not because I'm some guru on a mountain.
Because I'm a LOVE-centered, high achiever like you who refuses to choose between my spiritual life, my business, my sobriety, my money, my kids, my health, my community, and my sanity.
I want it ALL. Thriving in harmony. Consistently.
So I built a system that has saved my life and actually works - when I use it.
I hope it helps you too.
What Exactly IS the 11x LOVE Method?
The 11x LOVE Method is a holistic, spiritual framework for anyone who refuses to settle for "good enough" and is ready to build their Divine Masterpiece — a life of joy, sovereignty, health, and prosperity across ALL 11 dimensions of life.
It's not another self-help program that sits in your digital course graveyard that you never finish.
It's a complete life operating system that I use every single day. And I'm going to share it you.
Here's what I've remixed together:
✨ Ancient Wisdom — Spiritual practices, mindfulness, belief hacking, psychedelics, manifestation (the technologies that have worked for thousands of years)
✨ Modern Science — Nervous system regulation, trauma transcendence, micro-habit formation (because woo-woo without science is just... woo)
✨ Freedom Technology — Bitcoin sovereignty, NOSTR, life purpose, decentralized tools (your financial freedom matters)
✨ Holistic Health — Nutrition, movement, poison-free living support (your body is your temple)
✨ Peer Accountability — Community pods, accountability buddies, daily check-ins (you can't do this alone, trust me)
✨ Daily LOVE Practice — 5–11 minutes a day that actually WORK (not hours of meditation unless you love that or complicated BS)
At the center of it all?
GOD* (LOVE). Because everything flows from that divine connection.
(* God = whatever version you believe in- Source, Creator, Jesus, Allah, Universe, LOVE, etc)
The 11 Dimensions: Your Human Operating System
I spent years trying to fix one thing at a time.
Stayed skinny and sexy but my marriage fell apart.
Made money but lost my sanity and authenticity.
Got sober and lost most of my friends.
Meditated in the morning then yelled at my poor kids on the way to school.
It was exhausting and I felt like a fake-ass, hot-mess loser.
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I was not the safe, stable Mom that my kids deserved and needed nor was I the authentic, LOVE-filled human I know I am.
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I was saying yes to my no’s and no to my yes’s and was people-pleasing to everyone else’s expectation of who and how I was supposed to be.
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I was self-medicating with alcohol to numb and distract the overwhelm and exhaustion of holding together all of the pain, resentment, and disconnection I felt inside.
I thought it was just a phase, a funk, and that I would pull myself out of it.
It was a near-death black hole.
That's when I realized: Life isn't compartmentalized. So why am I treating it that way?
The 11x LOVE Method integrates 11 key life areas — all at once, in harmony with God at the center. Because for me - that's how the real transformation happened.
I break it into 5 macro-categories that break down further into sub-categories - so in total we have 11 dimensions of life to write your “11x LOVE Code”
I call this the “Prosperity Pyramid"
God at the center (your heart), with 4-sides: PURPOSE, HEALTH, PEOPLE, WEALTH.
When all 11 dimensions are aligned and thriving? You become un-f'able with.
GOD (The Center)
🙏 1. GOD — Your spiritual foundation. Infinite supply. "Let Go and Let God." This is where EVERYTHING starts.
PURPOSE
🎯 2. PURPOSE — Your IKIGAI. What you're here to create and contribute. Your reason for being.
HEALTH
💪 3. BODY — Your physical health, energy, movement, sobriety
🧠 4. MIND — Mental clarity, focus, learning, emotional regulation
✨ 5. SOUL — Inner peace, joy, self-love, authenticity
PEOPLE
❤️ 6. ROMANCE — Intimacy, partnership, desire, safety
👨👩👧👦 7. FAMILY — Parenting, connection, healing generational patterns
🤝 8. COMMUNITY — Tribe, belonging, support, meaningful friendships
WEALTH
💰 9. MONEY — Financial sovereignty, Bitcoin, abundance mindset
⏰ 10. TIME — Energy management, boundaries, sacred rhythms
🏡 11. ENVIRONMENT — Home, workspace, nature connection, simplicity
Maybe You're Here Because You're Stuck Like I Was
Let me guess...
😰 Money stress is weighing on everything, even though you "look successful"
😰 You've lost yourself in all the roles everyone expects you to play
😰 You're killing it in one area (career, business, parenting) but everything else is a dumpster fire
😰 You're exhausted, reactive, triggered — running on fumes and resentment
😰 You've tried everything — therapy, courses, coaches, self-help books — but nothing sticks
😰 You're lonely even when surrounded by people, because no one truly gets your struggle
😰 You're terrified of staying stuck like this, but equally terrified of change
If you're nodding your head right now... I see you. I've been you.
You're not broken. You're just trying to solve a holistic problem with single-issue solutions.
The 7 Villains That Were Keeping ME Stuck
I call them the FCLADDD Villains (yeah, I made that up):
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Fear — F*ck Everything And Run
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Confusion — Paralysis from too many options, not sure what will work
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Lies — Cultural conditioning, labels, shame, "you're not enough" stories
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Apathy — Feeling hopeless and “why bother” vibes about your dreams and desires
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Disconnection — Isolation from God, self, and community
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Distraction — Filling your soul-hole with scrolling, busyness, numbing behaviors
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Drifting — No daily practice, no accountability, no momentum, no clear path
The 11x LOVE Method neutralizes every single one.
Because I designed it to. When I do the practice…
Is This For You?
✅ This IS for you if:
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You're a high achiever — entrepreneur, creative, professional, parent, non-parent — who wants consistent growth
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You're spiritually curious — you believe in God, Source, Universe, Higher Power and want that connection deeper
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You're done with single-issue band-aids — you want real holistic transformation
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You're ready to do 5–11 minutes of daily practice (not hours, I promise)
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You want real community — people who actually get it, zero judgment, peer accountability
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You're open to Bitcoin and freedom tech as financial sovereignty tools (I'll teach you)
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You're willing to be honest, vulnerable, and consistent with yourself
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You want transformation that feels joyful, not like punishment
❌ This is NOT for you if:
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You want a quick fix or magic pill (sorry, this is a practice, not a hack)
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You think spirituality is "woo-woo nonsense" (God/LOVE is at the center here)
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You prefer going it alone (I tried that. It doesn't work. Community is non-negotiable.)
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You're looking for a victim-mentality pity party (we take radical responsibility here)
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You hate structure and daily rituals (consistency is the key to freedom, babe)
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You're allergic to joy, playfulness, and having fun while transforming (life's too short!)
The 11x LOVE Method works for anyone committed to holistic growth.
The app I'm building has specialized sub-communities — entrepreneurs, moms, Bitcoin people, sober warriors, creatives, and more — so you can find YOUR tribe while following the same proven framework.
How It Works: The 11x LOVE Code
Okay, so here's the blueprint I use every single day.
I teach this through the 11x LOVE Code Masterclass (5 modules) and we live it together in the 11x LOVE LaB community (LaB = Lessons AND Blessings, because that's what life is).
The 5 Core Modules
Module 1: BREAKTHROUGH — Discover & Define
SNAP! (Start Now, Align Purpose)
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Earn Your MEhd- Know Thyself: Needs, Values, Desires, Beliefs
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Who/what do you serve and why?
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Who/what do you fight against and why?
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Create your DJ Superhero Identity (yes, really - trust me it’s awesome)
Module 2: BREAKDOWN — Detective: WTF Just Happened?
SNAP! (Start Now, Assess Problem)
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Reconnect to God's LOVE (not shame, not hustle culture, only LOVE)
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Honest Life Audit across all 11 dimensions (no sugarcoating)
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Identify your Villain Roots: trauma, biochemistry, being under-resourced, wrong people/places/things, lack of clarity/practice/tools
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Write your 1st Obituary (what happens if nothing changes? Yeah, it's heavy. It needs to be.)
Module 3: BRAVERY — Decide & Delete
SNAP! (Start Now, Activate Power)
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New Soul Contract: A new commitment to the new YOU
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Curate your Cosmic Council & Hi-5 Vibe Tribe
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Fabulous Freedom Funeral: Release what no longer serves you
Module 4: BUILD — Design & Destiny
SNAP! (Start Now, Awaken Possibilities)
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Dream + Design your Divine Masterpiece - 11x LOVE Code (this is the fun part!)
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Create your Dream Destiny Dashboard + Treasure Map for Impact
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Write your 2nd Obituary (your legacy when you WIN)
Module 5: BADASSERY — Do or Do Not
SNAP! (Start Now, Achieve Progress)
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Do the Daily LOVE Practice (5 V's in 11 minutes)
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Implement the 4 C's of Success: Code, Consistency, Community, Celebration
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Victory In Progress (VIP) — you're always winning when you show up
The Daily LOVE Practice:
My 11-Minute Non-Negotiable
This is the heart of everything. The practice I do EVERY. SINGLE. DAY.
Morning — The 5 V's (~11 minutes)
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VIBE — What's my energy today? What song matches my vibe?
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VISION — Visualize my life "as if" my 11x LOVE Code is already created
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VALUE — 3 Things to focus on. What matters most today? How will I contribute and live my code?
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VILLAIN — What inner or outer villains could stop me and what tools do I have to counter it? (I name the FCLADDD villain or whatever it may be and pre-emptive solutions)
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VICTORY — (evening) What's my small/big win today? (Victory In Progress, baby!)
Evening — LaB Reflection (Lessons and Blessings)(~5 minutes)
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CELEBRATIONS! — What wins did I have?
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LESSONS — What did I learn?
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BLESSINGS — What am I grateful for?
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DREAM VIBES — Set my vibe for sleep and tomorrow
That's it. A few minutes a day. Gamified. Streak-tracked. Once I build this app - You can even earn Bitcoin sats for showing up. Sustainable.

You've never tried anything like this. Because I created it when nothing else worked for me.
What I've Remixed Into This Framework
I didn't invent the wheel. I just took all the best frameworks and rolled them into my own.
Ancient Wisdom
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IKIGAI (Japanese purpose framework)
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Mindfulness & Meditation (Kundalini yoga, breathwork)
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Spiritual Surrender ("Let Go and Let God", altered-consciousness)
Modern Science
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Holistic Health (nervous system regulation, bio-hacking, trauma transcendence)
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Habit Formation (James Clear, BJ Fogg — tiny habits that stick)
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Positive Psychology (Brené Brown vulnerability work, gratitude research)
Personal Development Classics
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Stephen Covey (7 Habits)
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Florence Scovel Shinn (The Game of Life and How to Play It)
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Tim Ferriss (4-Hour Workweek, lifestyle design)
Sobriety & Recovery
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12-Step Principles (peer support, daily practice) — remixed without the dogma
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Emotional Sobriety (Tara Brach, Gabor Maté)
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Shame Resilience (no victim mentality, radical responsibility)
Financial Sovereignty
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Why Bitcoin (Tomer Strolight)
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Money Literacy 2.0 (self-custody, freedom tech)
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Abundance Mindset (God as infinite supply)
Gamification & Behavior Design
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Streaks & Rewards (Duolingo-style consistency that works)
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Bitcoin Sats Incentives (earn real money for your progress!)
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Progress Tracking (EQ Visualizer across all 11 dimensions)
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Accountability (peer-to-peer accountability)
It's the BEST of everything, remixed for real life.
My Story: Why I Created This
I'm DJ Valerie B LOVE. Spiritual entrepreneur. Joyfully sober mom. Podcaster. Freedom-tech advocate. And I've lived every single bit of the transformation I'm teaching you.
✨ I've been on my poison-free journey for 9+ years (with 2 "data point" relapses — not failures, data points)
✨ I invested over $150K in my own healing — therapy, rehab, EMDR, ibogaine, psilocybin, coaching, courses, retreats, masterminds, you name it
✨ I co-founded 2 multi-million dollar companies
✨ I transcended trauma from childhood and adult, sexual, emotional, and physical violence
✨ I survived rock bottom — attempted suicide, divorce, losing everything — and came back stronger
✨ I created the 11x LOVE Method because single-issue solutions NEVER worked for me. I needed ALL 11 dimensions in harmony or nothing seemed to stick.
My 1:1 coaching and masterminds specialize in working with moms (that's my unique gift as a mom myself), offering:
🩷 1:1 Private Daily Coaching After Rehab
🍃 Stay Sober Without AA — A joyful, shame-free path
🌟 Holistic Lifestyle Design & Support Group
₿ Bitcoin Financial Freedom — I'll teach you financial sovereignty
🍄 Psychedelic Integration — Spiritual guidance through plant medicine journeys
But the 11x LOVE Method and 11x LOVE LaB and app? That's for everyone.
Spiritual, creative, high achievers from all walks of life.
My Story in 3 Beats:
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Rockstar → Rock bottom (SNAP!)
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Rock bottom → Rocking life again (the journey)
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Rocking life → Helping YOU rock yours (the mission)
My tagline: "I went from Rockstar to rock bottom... to Rocking Life again. Let me show you how."
How You Can Work With Me
All my digital creations, newsletter, courses, podcasts etc are Value for Value (Pay What You Want)
1. 11x LOVE Code Masterclass (The Foundation)
What: The complete 5-module course (BREAKTHROUGH → BREAKDOWN → BRAVERY → BUILD → BADASSERY)
Investment: Value for Value = Pay-What-You-Want (PWYW)
Best for: Anyone ready to go deep and build their holistic roadmap
Goal: Help 1 million people to write and live their 11x LOVE Code
2. 11x LOVE LaB Membership (The Community)
What: Daily LOVE Practice app + peer accountability buddies + weekly experiments + specialized sub-communities + live calls with me + Bitcoin sats rewards
Investment: $997/year less than $3/day Join Waitlist Here
Best for: High achievers who want accountability and tribe (sub-groups: moms, entrepreneurs, Bitcoin advocates, sober warriors, creatives, and more)
3. 11x LOVE Yearly Mastermind (The Accelerator)
What: High-touch group coaching with me, deeper dives, groups of 9 with rotating 3-person accountability pods, quarterly planning and tracking progress.
Investment: $9997/year Application only
Best for: For the high-achiever ready for the deep and meaningful transformation.
4. VIP 1:1 Daily Coaching With Me (The Remodel)
What: Private daily coaching (90-365 days), custom compassionate support, integration and rebuilding support for women who are post-rehab or post-psychedelic healing experience.
Investment: $25K -$60k (Recovery Intensive) Apply for Chemistry call
Best for: Moms post-crisis or ready for elite-level transformation (this is my specialty)
Start anywhere. Every door leads to the same place: YOUR DIVINE MASTERPIECE.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I have to be sober to join?
Nope. The 11x LOVE Method is for anyone seeking holistic transformation. That said, we have a strong sobriety sub-community for those exploring or committed to an alcohol-free lifestyle. If sobriety is part of your journey, you'll find incredible support. If not, you'll still benefit from the framework.
What if I'm not religious?
You don't have to be religious, but you do need to be spiritually open. "God" can mean Source, Universe, LOVE, Higher Power — whatever resonates with you. The key is surrender and connection to something bigger than ego.
I've tried everything. Why would THIS work?
Because everything you tried was single-issue. Sobriety alone. Money alone. Therapy alone. Fitness alone. This is holistic — all 11 areas, all at once, with daily practice and real peer accountability. That's the difference.
I don't have time for another self-help thing.
The Daily LOVE Practice is 5–11 minutes. You have time. You just haven't had a system THIS simple and effective before. I promise.
What if I relapse or mess up?
You're not kicked out. You're not shamed. Relapses and mistakes are data points, not failures. We have a Relapse-Reversal Protocol to help you get back on track with compassion. This is a no-shame and no-label zone.
Is this just for moms?
No. The 11x LOVE Method is for anyone who wants holistic transformation. The app has specialized sub-communities including moms, entrepreneurs, creatives, Bitcoin advocates, and more. My 1:1 coaching specializes in moms, but the Method itself is universal.
Ready to Start?
🎧 Listen to the DJ Valerie B LOVE Podcast
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The Mantras I Live By (and teach)
✨ "Raise Your Vibes. Rock Your Dreams."
✨ "Let Go and Let God."
✨ "FOG Yeah!" (Focus On God)
✨ "You are LOVE and you are LOVED."
✨ "Victory In Progress." (VIP)
✨ "Lessons AND Blessings." (LaB)
✨ "From Frazzle to Dazzle."
✨ "What Would LOVE Do?"
One Last Thing Before You Go...
You didn't land on this page by accident.
If you've read this far, something in you knows this is your path.
You're not broken. You're not too far gone. You're not "beyond help."
You're just ready for something real. Something holistic. Something that actually works.
The 11x LOVE Method is that something.
And I'm here, ready to walk this path with you.
Let's rock this. Together.
Peace, LOVE, & Warm Aloha,
💜 Valerie
Founder, 11x LOVE Method
Spiritual Entrepreneur | Joyful Sobriety Evangelist | Freedom Tech Cheerleader
Helping High Achievers Build Their Divine Masterpiece