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- Manifest with LOVE #1 - How To Keep Going When You Are in Hell
Bathing in the Unity of God's LOVE You have probably heard the phrases: Believe It To Receive It Feel It to Heal It So It Is Said So It Shall Be It Is Done If You Can Dream It You Can Do It God is My Supply Let Go and Let God …and countless more. But do you actually BELIEVE, KNOW and PRACTICE them… Every. Single. Day? If not, you are missing out on God’s Technicolor Toolbox of words as wands to create MAGIC in your one and only sacred life. Let me share how you can apply this in your masterpiece of life. But 1st, my Recent Ride Through Hell (and how to learn from my mistakes) Since April my life has been on quite a smackdown, roller coaster, tilt-a-whirl ride through hell and now I am thankfully OUT. “They” say the only way out is through - ugh. It’s true. It’s like being in labor and giving birth - you MUST go through it in order to birth a new life. No short cuts - even C-Section is a dooooozy. Speaking from experience of both ways of delivering most precious babies after months and months of carrying them from deep in my womb to this world, it’s hard as F and there is NO turning back. When labor starts, it’s game time. The same applies to life’s wild ride. As someone who has manifested a most blessed and glorious life even with tons and tons and tons of outstanding ups and debilitating downs which I refer to as “Lessons and Blessings”, I became undisciplined and mentally lazy and allowed some external voices and vibes of people, places, and things to take over the microphone in my head. Oops. I won’t bore you with too many details because this article is about YOU and your Divine Journey and 3 ways you can get back on track if you find yourself stuck, detoured or derailed. So here are 3 things that happened and how I got out alive and better than ever and how you can too. 3 Important Triggers: I got mentally flabby and allowed my self-talk and vibes to get hijacked by some disappointments in relationships and external circumstances. I did hypno trauma work which was effective but was in it too long and I went backwards when I was actually ready to take a break, because I listened to “experts” and others instead of my wise internal healer. I allowed the collective vibes of fear, doubt, and uncertainty to pollute my heart and overshadow the true voice of God that lives within my soul. What this ultimately led to was quite a surprise and I’ll share that as I dive into the: 3 Ingredients of Hell + 3 Lessons and Blessings Flabby Mind: “Rejection is God’s Redirection” I am a hardcore 24/7 self-talker and I know my words can spin me either upward or downward so when I encounter difficult situations like rejection or disconnection from loved ones I have little tools like the quote above to keep my nervous system calm and in a state of faith with God. When I am diligent in these unavoidable difficult times, I can weather the storms but when they are back to back to back to back , my tendency is to crawl under a blanket and self-soothe. That is a healthy coping mechanism...until it isn't. The problem with that is that " oops I forgot to set a timer and tell a friend to remind me to come out and play ", I unintentionally stayed there too long leading to a soggy depression/anxiety spiral. While in the midst of these relationship disappointments, the elections popped up along with some other things that were out of my control and I got emotionally knocked down on the mat. #1 Lesson and Blessing = Doing forgiveness work, cord cutting toxic relationships sooner, and vigilant positive self-talk. Ignoring My Intuition: “ If it’s not a F-Yeah it’s a F-No” As someone who has been through an array of trauma and trauma work, I know when it’s time to take a break and integrate. I was doing some effective hypno work which was really powerful to go back and dry erase board some traumatic experiences. However it was becoming too much and I even told the therapist I don’t feel good and that I feel like I am getting retraumatized talking about it and going back too much. I told her, thank you, I am done for now. These doors are closed and I am now free. It’s time to look forward and not in the rear-view mirror. It’s a sure way to crash a Ferrari going forward 150 mph if all you do is look back in that rear-view mirror. I’m not saying don’t acknowledge what’s behind you. But there comes a time to let go and let it pass, and definitely don’t focus on it too much if you want to move forward, enjoy your journey then reach your destination. #2 Lesson and Blessing = I was reminded to stand up for myself, stop focusing on the past and that God and I are the only ones who know what my soul needs and no other human can ever truly know, even if they have good intentions, and that of course THIS present moment is the ONLY one we truly have so focus on here and now like my teacher Ram Dass taught me. Bad Vibes = Soul Pollution “Raise Your Vibes + Rock Your Dreams” Duh Val, that’s your mission. But dang, with the elections, rejections and disconnections- whoa was I in a low vibe state. Outrage. Disgust. Anger. Lies. Fear. Uncertainty. Doubt. Control. Grief. I got disconnected from the one and only truth which is God’s Infinite LOVE for me and EVERYONE. My vibes got low and polluted UNTIL this surprise ………. I shared what I was going through with a soul brother in Colombia, about a particular disconnection from someone supremely special in my life and he told me to listen to “The Game of Life” by Florence Scovel-Shinn. Holy shite what a gamechanger - pun intended. Ooops- I forgot it is all just an illusion and part of the “Earthling Choose Your Own Adventure Theater” here to give us lessons. I didn’t really forget, I was just consumed by all the pain and big back to back to back changes. Because of the way Florence helped me reframe it all into a Game rather than a War- EVERYTHING shifted in my vibes and a great healing took place in my heart and soul. WOW - Blessings to her! It’s funny because with the 11x LOVE Method, the whole jam is to look at all of the things we do as quests or missions and to have fun with them. What I realized is that I was not the one consciously initiating the “quest” but it happened anyway and I had to deal with it in real time. Ummm- yeah Val that’s how life actually works. (my soul actually tee’d that one up). Instead of surrendering to what is and TRUSTING Divine LOVE, I was exercising deep RESISTANCE and it caused me SO much unnecessary pain and suffering. This is the actual work. Being fluid and flowing with unexpected forks in the road of your pre-imagined paths that need your faith and attention rather than resisting and trying to (wo)manhandle everything . Once I surrendered to the truth that God wanted me to “Let Go and Let God” and that it was all quite an extraordinary adventure with God as my Co-Pilot, I felt safe, LOVED, expansive, re-energized, peaceful, powerful and unstoppable. #3 Lesson and Blessing = When I proactively visualize and get myself in a feeling of God’s LOVE, aka a high-vibe state, that is where ALL healing and manifesting take place, connected to God’s Vibes. BELIEVE and KNOW So my beautiful LOVE Gamer, which of those 3 things applies to you in your life right now and how can you redirect your words and vibes to heal and bring your dreams into reality? Can you come up with a little jingle as an affirmation and put some high energy of visualization behind it? Can you allow someone to exit your life gracefully as you move forward, free and evolved? Can you repair with a loved one and look to the future with new agreements and care? Can you stop doomscrolling and getting velcro’d into the toxic fear dramas that are out of your control? The sky’s the limit baby and I want to see you up there flying in the clouds of your dreams! Until next time, BELIEVE in the power of your dreams and stay connected to God and ALL will work itself out better than you can even imagine! Wishing YOU Peace, LOVE, & Warm Aloha DJ Valerie B LOVE - The Vibe Goddess 💜 If you enjoyed this article and would like to support my work with Value for Value you can tip in Bitcoin or Fiat. Thank you for your LOVE and support 🙏 https://djvalerieblove.com/value Books, Talks, and Tools: The Game of Life - Florence Scovel-Shinn https://youtu.be/wJa5Ch0O4BI?si=YXbn-plOITrRq2wt Talks of Neville Goddard https://www.youtube.com/@NevilleGoddard-Official Remember Be Here Now - Ram Dass https://www.ramdass.org/ Think and Grow Rich - Napoleon Hill https://www.amazon.com/Think-Grow-Rich-Landmark-Bestseller/dp/1585424331 The Bible App https://www.youversion.com/the-bible-app/ Reveri Self-Hypnosis App https://www.reveri.com/ Dr. Spiegel - Self Hypnosis Interview with Aubrey Marcus https://youtu.be/HPWWgirsywA?si=JGpZlQt9jCTI6kMX DBT Workbook for Skill Development https://www.target.com/p/the-dialectical-behavior-therapy-skills-workbook-2nd-edition-by-matthew-mckay-jeffrey-c-wood-jeffrey-brantley-paperback/-/A-78017859 NVC Non-Violent Communication , Marshall Rosenberg https://www.cnvc.org/
- LOVE Rule #318 Never Go to Bed Upset
A family member died in his sleep last night. This is a huge loss for everyone and at least he got to pass peacefully while sleeping next to his beloved wife. We never know when God wants us to come home so each day is precious and never to be taken for granted. Have you ever had a disagreement or argument with a loved one and went to bed upset? How did it feel? For me, I am ultra sensitive and want to repair as quickly as possible and the more time and space between a rupture and repair causes me massive internal anxiety. I have learned over the years that not everyone is like me nor wants to repair right away and needs time to cool off and gather their thoughts and energy. It has been a tough journey to learn to balance my need for fast repair and some of my loved one’s need for more space before repair. We have attempted to make agreements to at least say I love you and we will deal with this tomorrow or the next day so everyone feels like their needs are being respected. I have had a notion that in a past life that I didn’t get to say sorry, I love you and goodbye to someone special and they died and I never got the chance and that is possibly why I am so sensitive and anxious around repairing things with people asap. Anyway, who knows. What I do know is that this is a special week with family and friends, and a great opportunity to express love and gratitude and perhaps even some repair and forgiveness. Life is SO short. Hug your loved ones extra tight. Wishing You Peace, LOVE, and Warm Aloha Valerie
- How to Deal With F'd Up Parents - Happy Thanksgiving
Aloha LOVE Tribe, I am trying a new experiment. Check it out. I LOVE tech, personal growth, AI and anything that can synthesize data points and help me become a better version of myself more efficiently and effectively. This experiment does not remove or replace the absolute need for proof of work via testing assumptions through experiential learning. I am going through some very intense (like gutwrenching buckle up buttercup WTF intense) challenges as a Mom, woman, friend, lover, and human and had a deep conversation over Pad Thai with a very special person in my life yesterday about parental forgiveness, shame, and LOVE. This person has known me for decades and probably knows me, my history and my family more than almost anyone yet still has limited compassionate understanding of my internal operating system and what is like to live in my skin. NO ONE can ever understand how others operate, it's impossible and that's ok. No matter how many books, podcasts, courses, degrees, hours of therapy, doses of psychedelics, expert status blah blah - no human can fully understand another and anyone who claims to is full of shite. So - I am doing a blended post with this experiment with writing, video, and AI below because I seem to flow better when just talking and I hope it helps you along your journey of self-love, self-forgiveness, self-discovery, and compassion and empathy. From Perplexity with Claude 3.5: Prompt: You are the world's leading expert on experiential personal growth .Help me outline and write a 2500 word blog post about forgiveness of our parents who were just flawed humans raising humans. The Journey to Forgiving Our Parents: A Path to Personal Healing The complex journey of forgiving our parents stands as one of life's most profound challenges and opportunities for growth. As adults, we come to realize that our parents were simply humans trying to raise other humans, carrying their own wounds and limitations. Understanding Parental Forgiveness Forgiveness of our parents isn't about excusing harmful behavior or pretending everything was perfect. Rather, it's about releasing ourselves from the burden of resentment and creating space for healing[1]. This internal process allows us to move forward while acknowledging both the pain and the humanity in our shared story. The Psychology of Parent-Child Wounds The Impact of Early Experiences Our childhood experiences with our parents form the foundation of how we relate to others throughout our lives. Research shows that parental acceptance in childhood significantly influences our ability to forgive as adults[4]. When we experience rejection or hurt from our parents, these wounds can continue to affect us well into adulthood, influencing our relationships and emotional well-being. Breaking Generational Patterns "Forgiveness is the key to resolving the pain of the past and breaking generational patterns. Without it, nothing is ever laid to rest. The past still operates in the present"[1]. This profound truth highlights how unresolved parental issues can perpetuate through generations unless we actively work to heal them. The Benefits of Forgiving Parents Personal Growth and Healing Research indicates that forgiveness has numerous positive effects on individual traits, family relationships, and overall family environment[3]. When we forgive our parents, we: - Experience improved mental and physical health - Develop better relationship skills - Break free from destructive patterns - Create healthier boundaries - Foster emotional maturity Steps Toward Forgiveness 1. Understanding Their Story Take time to learn about your parents' own life experiences and challenges. Understanding the context of their behavior can foster compassion without excusing harmful actions[6]. Consider their own upbringing, struggles, and the societal pressures they faced. 2. Acknowledging Reality Have realistic expectations about your parents' capacity for change. Accept that they did the best they could with their available resources, beliefs, and abilities[1]. This doesn't minimize your pain but provides a framework for understanding. 3. Finding Balance Focus on both the challenging and positive aspects of your parents. Create a balanced perspective by: - Identifying their positive characteristics and actions - Acknowledging their human limitations - Recognizing their own unhealed wounds - Understanding the context of their choices[1] The Process of Healing Internal Work The journey of forgiveness requires changes in thinking, feeling, and acting. It's a process that demands patience and perseverance[7]. Consider these aspects: Emotional Processing When we learn to hold space for our true feelings without judgment, we make significant progress toward healing[6]. This includes: - Acknowledging hurt and anger - Processing grief - Releasing resentment - Developing compassion Setting Boundaries Forgiveness doesn't mean returning to harmful patterns. Establish healthy boundaries that protect your well-being while allowing for potential healing in the relationship[7]. Moving Forward Creating New Patterns As we work through forgiving our parents, we often discover parts of them in ourselves, our relationships, and our parenting styles[6]. This awareness allows us to: - Choose different responses - Break negative cycles - Create healthier relationships - Parent more consciously Acceptance and Growth True forgiveness involves radical acceptance of what was and what is[6]. This means: - Accepting the past cannot be changed - Acknowledging your parents' humanity - Recognizing your own growth and healing - Finding peace with imperfection The Impact on Future Generations When we forgive our parents, we don't just heal ourselves; we create positive change for future generations[5]. This transformation: - Breaks cycles of hurt - Models healthy relationship patterns - Teaches emotional intelligence - Demonstrates the power of forgiveness Conclusion Forgiving our parents is a profound act of self-love and healing. It's not about forgetting or excusing, but about freeing ourselves from the weight of past hurts and creating space for growth. As we embrace this journey, we not only heal our own wounds but contribute to breaking generational patterns of pain, creating a legacy of emotional health and wisdom for future generations[1]. Remember that forgiveness is a personal journey that unfolds at its own pace. There's no timeline for healing, and the process looks different for everyone. What matters is taking those first steps toward understanding, acceptance, and ultimately, freedom from the past. Citations: [1] https://www.solutionsforresilience.com/forgive-your-parents/ [2] https://www.leslieleylandfields.com/blog/slieleylandfields.com/p/forgiving-our-fathers-and-mothers.html [3] https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18211179/ [4] https://today.uconn.edu/2024/05/relationship-study-says-parental-acceptance-in-childhood-predicts-ability-to-forgive-as-adults/ [5] https://everthinehome.com/how-to-forgive-your-parents/ [6] https://www.consciousmommy.com/post/how-to-forgive-your-parents-to-heal-yourself [7] https://extension.umn.edu/divorce-and-other-family-transitions/importance-forgiveness [8] https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/28375300.2024.2310432 [9] https://www.crosswalk.com/family/singles/how-to-forgive-your-parents-for-childhood-pain.html
- Song of the Day #1
This song takes me back to Maui when I kept hearing strange words in my head about new music. After moving to Boulder and going through a painful divorce I started doing Kundalini yoga and this song was on in the class. It stopped me in my tracks because it was what I was hearing for a couple of years. What a trip. Please enjoy Snatam Kaur https://open.spotify.com/track/65x8PLeBCisLJVSibyXemB?si=jGzgqJMiTKKX5pAxI9nqeg
- The Seduction Of Darkness
Cozy. Quiet. Peaceful. As a lightworker, I naturally gravitate toward sparkly, high-vibe people, places, and things. Lightworkers are those who come to Earth with a soul mission of reminding humans who and why they are here. Of course my name is Valerie B LOVE - so my mission is to remind myself and others of the simplest yet one of the most difficult things to do, which is to B LOVE. Yet, there are obstacles on the lightworker path here on Earth. I am also a very sensitive empath and if I do not practice energy hygiene every single day, many times a day, I can be very negatively impacted by external energies and forces. The non-stop stimulus and overwhelm of modern life can cause one to crave solitude and avoid interaction with the chaos. 8 years ago I almost died because I didn’t know myself well enough and didn’t navigate 5 massive life changes with skill or support. I thought I could handle everything on my own because I always had in the past. However it was all simply too much and I collapsed into heavy drinking and acting like an asshole because the shame and overwhelm consumed me. I wanted to shrink to a tiny speck and hide from all of the pain and suffering. There is something soothing about becoming so tiny and melting into the dark, that nothing can find you and hurt you. However it occurred to me this morning as I was meditating on the tiny speck and seduction of darkness, if I were to ever really disappear into the blanket of darkness, there would be NO MUSIC to listen to. As much as I feel like protecting my heart from the tsunami of strong emotions of loss, fear, grief, rejection, uncertainty, and negativity, the thought of not hearing music ever again is enough for me to stay here on Earth in this skin-suit and navigate the tsunami. My favorite music is my children’s laughter. Nothing is better. Nothing. Of course as a DJ I love all kinds of sounds and vibes, but the sound of laughter of your loved ones is peak symphony. So, I am sharing this with you because I know what it feels like for those of you going through pure hell that escape seems like the only option. You are NOT alone. I wish I had the version of me now to talk to 8 years ago when I didn’t think I could take this life anymore. So I am starting what I promised God I would do 8 years ago when my life was spared. I will be sharing stories and practices that have helped me become stronger than ever, and continue to grow as a work in progress. Look out for SNAP! Goes the Mommy and SNAP! Goes the Human stories from me soon. Blessings to you on this long-strange trip called life. Let me know how I can best be of service to you on your path. Wishing you, Peace, LOVE, & Warm Aloha, Valerie B LOVE
- The Bitcoiner's Dilemma
Becoming a Bitcoiner by Dancing In The Discomfort Zone By DJ Valerie B LOVE - The Vibe Goddess The Freedom Journey ”How has Bitcoin changed you and your relationships”? This is a question I love to ask guests on my podcast. They share a wide array of answers ranging from: “ It has brought us closer and now we have a Bitcoin business and travel the world together ” to “ I am now divorced because I have discovered and made a commitment to my authentic self and our missions have become too incompatible ”. As we bravely venture down the neverending, multi-dimensional rabbit hole of Bitcoin, our hearts, minds, & souls are confronted with challenges that rock the foundations of our former “reality” aka the fiat Matrix. These challenges test our conviction to this newfound truth machine that links us all across planet Earth. For those of us brave enough to accept the challenges, part of the journey is to question and honestly assess our former worldview, our relationships, and, of course, ourselves. We are forced to confront our current life path. We are presented with previously unknown yet now undeniable truths. We may feel like we are being torn apart in the middle of a tug-of-war. Torn between the past and the future. Torn between old familiar illusions and unsettling new truths. An existence that was once our perceived safe haven - our comfort zone - is now glaringly incongruent with our next chapter of life. We are forced to decide between the Old vs New in 3 areas: System: Corruption vs Truth Self: Caterpillar vs Butterfly Relationships: Incompatible vs Aligned This is the true Bitcoiner’s Dilemma. “No one said becoming a Bitcoiner would be easy. But it’s worth it “ DJV System: Corruption vs Truth When you first realized that almost everything you have been taught about business, money, media, education, health, and government are lies meant to enslave you as a cog in the machine of the elite, I bet you were just as infuriated as I was. “We don't need no education We don't need no thought control” Another Brick In The Wall by Pink Floyd The Virulent Kraken I always felt like the global system, aka “ the Kraken”, was broken. For decades I had the naive perspective that if we all just practiced personal responsibility, shared love, demonstrated kindness, and worked hard, the world would be a better place for all. As an endlessly hopeful romantic, artist, and lover, I still deeply believe in those practices, yet now I know there was a missing ingredient to that equation: sound money. My journey into the rabbit hole was prompted by the Beeple sale of an NFT for $69 million in March of 2021. I was curious; why the hell would anyone pay that for a jpeg? I wondered how this blockchain crypto stuff could help alleviate the starving artist syndrome that so many creators suffer. Up to that point, I mistakenly lumped all crypto together, including Bitcoin. I watched Alex Gladstein of the Human Rights Foundation speak at Bitcoin 2021 in Miami from my living room couch during lockdowns and knew immediately that these Bitcoiners were my people and that Bitcoin was worthy of exploring deeper as a tool for peace. I have always been on a mission to spread love and bring more peace on Earth, and I believe that Bitcoin, when combined with radical personal responsibility, and an unwavering commitment to truth can bring more peace to all, now and for generations to come. “ You may say I’m a dreamer, but I’m not the only one ” Imagine by John Lennon Once I learned what money is, (thanks Saifedean Ammous) and how not having sound money has corrupted our systems (internal and external), I knew I could never go back. It is scary and overwhelming to question the “system” that we have all been indoctrinated into. Paradigm shifts are inherently destabilizing at every level: mental, physical, emotional, financial, spiritual, & relational. No one likes to feel duped, so sometimes our egos try to reject the truth. But once we see the truth, it is our duty to reject the lies of the/our current system of government, education, finance, health, and social structures. Otherwise, we remain slaves to the corrupt “Kraken”. “And now you do what they told ya…. Now you’re under control… F@ck you I won’t do what you tell me! ” Killin’ in the Name - Rage Against the Machine The Flaming Sword of Truth You must decide. Corruption or Truth. This is the Bitcoiner’s Dilemma. Self: Caterpillar vs Butterfly At many points along the journey, you will question yourself, your sanity, and this uncharted new way of being. It’s perfectly natural. But when you are in the goo of the in-between stage, like a caterpillar turning into a butterfly, it can be scary AF. “ Does it feel that your life's become a catastrophe? Oh, it has to be, for you to grow, boy” Long Way Home - Supertramp Divine Goo A butterfly is designed by Mother Nature to withstand the uncertainty of the messy gooey chrysalis stage. So are you. When a butterfly emerges from the once safe, yet constrained chrysalis, it has to embrace a brand new way of being and thinking about itself and the world. If it stays in the chrysalis it will die. “ The struggle is at times so intense that the butterfly may seem near death, but it is critical at this point that no one comes to rescue her. She needs to do it by herself. You see, the struggle to open her cocoon is what builds the strength in her wings ” Abbie Shelter It has a new winged suit and operating system that may take some getting used to. It gravitates toward other butterflies as it watches the world from its brand-new perspective, flying high around the gorgeous gardens. Other caterpillars may or may not embark on the unfamiliar journey to become a butterfly but the newly winged butterfly is now on a mission to fly and pollinate beautiful flowers around the world, and it is not the responsibility of the butterfly to turn other caterpillars into butterflies. Its mission is to simply be a butterfly. This analogy may seem trite but it is a great way to view our journey as newly winged Bitcoiners. In the next section, I’ll discuss relationships and how it relates to Bitcoiners and Butterflies. But for now, let’s talk about you, my dear. As a Bitcoiner, you value truth, integrity, purpose, and love. Unfortunately, as a survival mechanism, you may have been shrinking, lying, and cheating on yourself in order to “fit in” to the old fiat world because you wanted to be accepted, belong, and feel loved or simply because you didn’t know there was another way of living your truth. Being a Bitcoiner means doing the brave inner work of understanding and healing your past in service of being free and powerful to live your mission. You are confronted with the choice of remaining in the old fiat mindset operating system or making the leap of faith into this new world of truth, love, and code. Making big life changes is hard and scary. But as Glennon Doyle’s mom says, “We can do hard things”. As Bitcoiners we are taught to “Don’t trust, verify”. As spiritual beings, we are told to “Let go and let God”. Our hearts and souls crave freedom and rely on intuition and “vibes” for making decisions. However, our minds and egos want solid answers and control before making decisions. The fear of making a “wrong” decision can paralyze us into staying in the goo which is where our bodies, minds, and souls will most certainly die. We think somehow that having “answers” or a “plan” or “perfect timing” will eliminate fear. It doesn’t. The only thing that calms fear is doing the thing we are afraid of, like jumping out of an airplane. Talking about it and discussing where you plan to land will not eliminate the fear. Jumping out of the airplane is the only thing that will actually relieve the fear. The same is true for big life decisions and saying YES to yourself and your truth. Our hearts and souls know and feel the right path and the consequences will be rewarding and sometimes painful. Temple of Truth We know in our hearts as Bitcoiners if we do not choose to live authentically in all areas of life and pursue truth we will be hypocrites, and that hypocrisy will devour our souls like a malignant tumor. Especially if we are vocal proponents of Bitcoin, truth, and freedom. We know we must never abandon ourselves again if we are to walk the path of a Bitcoiner. The good thing is we are not alone and we must never give up. “ I won’t let you get me down, I’ll keep getting up when I hit the ground, No I never give up, no I never give up, no no “ Never Give Up by Sia One of the reasons Bitcoin is sound money is because of proof-of-work. Not proof of easy Not proof of comfort zone Not proof of I want everyone to like me Rather than avoid the discomfort zone that life inevitably gives us, I believe it is our duty to train ourselves to become comfortable in the discomfort zone. The discomfort zone won’t kill us. The discomfort zone only makes us stronger. Like the butterfly getting stronger by actually breaking free from the once-protective chrysalis. You are the only one who can strengthen yourself. No one can go to the gym for you. No one can meditate for you. No one can train your mind for you. It’s. All. You. You cannot lie to nor cheat on your authentic self any longer. The choices are: You spread your glorious authentic wings and fly toward a bright orange future with fellow Bitcoiner butterflies. Or… You attempt to go back to the cocoon, shrinking and deforming yourself in order to be accepted in your family, your community, or your old tribe. (Let me know how that goes- squeezing back into that tiny space with those big bright orange wings of yours) “Tell me who the F*** are you ”? Who Are You by The Who You must decide. Caterpillar or Butterfly. This is the Bitcoiner’s Dilemma. Relationships: Incompatible vs Aligned If you’re anything like me, you value caring for others, especially family and close friends. You value lifting others up, doing kind things, and being a cheerleader for their big dreams and success. You want to live up to your old agreements and be dutiful and responsible. The idea of disappointing others you care about gnaws at your heart. However, along your journey down the rabbit hole, you may have found your relationships drastically changing because people in your life think you are crazy and wear a tin foil hat. Perhaps loved ones think you have joined a cult? They may want you to put the Bitcoin genie back in the bottle. But it’s 100% impossible. Bitcoin Portal of Possibility Bitcoin has permeated your being like a drop of bright orange dye in a glass of water and cannot ever be removed. Ever. Denying and resisting what you know to be true is what leads to suffering and derangement. Some of the biggest battles we face as Bitcoiners are with the loved ones who desperately cling to the past because the truth is too hard or “crazy” to process. For those of you lucky enough to have family and friends who are on the mission, congrats! For those of us who have family and friends who want to commit us to the insane asylum, reject this new, butterfly version of us, or convert us back to our B.B. selves (Before Bitcoin) it’s a tougher slog. Sometimes spiritual evolution requires changing relationship agreements to match new information. Agreements we made as caterpillars with other caterpillars must change if we are to fly freely as butterflies. It is painful to watch as loved ones refuse and resist. Yet like the butterfly, it is not our duty to force them to grow and join the journey. Sometimes we are the ones suffering and resisting change because we are clinging to the nostalgia of the past. “ I will lay down my heart and I'll feel the power But you won't, no you won't ” I Can’t Make You Love Me - Bonnie Raitt Outgrown Our job is to be a butterfly and fly with other butterflies spreading the pollen of love and Bitcoin to welcoming flowers across the planet. Perhaps one day those caterpillars will join. Perhaps not. But a butterfly fails at its new mission if it stays on the ground trying to convince caterpillars to fly, especially if the caterpillars ask the butterflies not to fly. A teacher once told me, as I shared how guilty I felt about my children and family not being on the same spiritual path and the Bitcoin path as I am, “ It is not my job to interfere with another person’s spiritual curriculum ”. Ugh. He told me that guilt is one of the most destructive yet easy-to-fix emotions. That was tough to hear because I am a devoted mother and I care very deeply about my family, even my co-parent who I love very much. I thought it was my duty and role to put their needs and desires above my own and I mistakenly adopted a martyr complex. The fix for my feelings of guilt was to be true to my heart, mission, and soul and to be rigorously honest and transparent with them so they could love me as I am and I could be an example for them to do the same and be authentic expressions of themselves. It wasn’t and still isn’t easy especially since they still think I am crazy and that Bitcoin is “stupid”. As lonely as it can be inside my own family, I have surrendered to the truth that we care for each other yet are simply not compatible and that’s ok. We still love each other very much and I fulfill my responsibilities, yet I am not chained to the past false identity of who I thought I was supposed to be in order to be a dutiful Mom or wife. Free To Be You and Me I am free to be me and they are free to be themselves. What a gift. The magical wonder of Bitcoin is that it brings so many diverse new people together on a shared mission. The painful part is that it also causes irreversible spiritual awakenings that lead to incompatibility going forward in friendships, marriages, and partnerships. Fear of the unfamiliar new world may cause us to contort and try to shrink ourselves back into the old pseudo-comfort zone in order to keep the “peace” in our homes, workplaces, and friendships. But it is not an actual pure peace. It is the walking on eggshells, powderkeg kind of peace. Something’s gotta give, and rest assured it will. It is only a matter of time. Once you have experienced the truth, beauty and possibility of Bitcoin butterfly life, you can never unfeel or unsee it. Partners in Purpose You will align and gravitate toward other butterflies like the Earth gravitates toward the sun. Those who are meant to fly with you will. Those who are incompatible and not meant to fly will not, no matter how hard you try. You must take an honest inventory of your relationships and decide. “ Should I stay or should I go now ?” The Clash Incompatible vs Aligned. This is the Bitcoiner’s Dilemma. The Choice “ With every single breath, you have a choice ”. - DJV So, do you really want to change or do you just want to want to change? The truth is most people do not truly want to change and that is verified by seeing that they simply do not change. They want to want it, and they want it to be easy, painless, and fast. Just like changing from fiat to Bitcoin, it’s not easy and takes daily courage, work, and conviction especially when there is soul-sabotaging FUD everywhere. The wonderful opportunity that comes along with the Bitcoiner’s Dilemma is now that you have been shown the truth, you have the power to choose and say yes to your old default comfort zone way of living in a “comfortably numb” cocoon, or you can choose to say yes to a bright orange future, spread your wings and “let the sun shine in” as you fly through God’s skies dancing in the discomfort zone with faith and grace. Soul Tribe You are the only one to give yourself this permission slip to remove the old self-imposed limitations and embrace a truly sovereign life. With love and care, you can choose to move forward, renegotiate old contracts, feel the fear and do it anyway, all while trusting in the infinite intelligence and love of God to support us all on this long strange trip called life. The accompanying grief that comes with saying goodbye to the old you, watching your worldview crumble, and allowing outgrown relationships to break apart, is very real and must be honored. It’s a lifelong process. It’s not all peaches and cream now that we have this tool called Bitcoin. Now the inner work begins. And the best part is we have each other, my fellow Bitcoiners. You are not alone. When you say YES to your unique mission the following occurs: You discover new ways of aligning yourself in a new society that you help build. You attract Divine expansion partners in purpose. You stand powerfully and peacefully in your purest expression of truth. Not a watered-down version so others may approve of you and feel better in their illusion. Those days are over. If I knew I would lose friends, upset my family, and walk this sometimes terrifying uncharted life path just because I wanted to learn about some dude named Beeple, then stumble deep down the Bitcoin rabbit hole, would I have done it? Bitcoin Warrioress Damn right I would. I’m a Bitcoiner. Would you? Fiat past or Bitcoin future? What is your choice? “ If you don’t sacrifice for what you want, what you want becomes the sacrifice ”. Anonymous
- WTF is Wrong with Humans?
“People are people so why should it be - you and I should get along so awfully?” - Depeche Mode Because most people are numb, dumb, sick, scared, and broke. By design. You see the powers that be want you this way. What do people in power crave above all? More power. It’s a bottomless black hole that can NEVER BE FILLED yet some humans keep trying to amass more and more power and control OVER others. But Val, Why? 3 reasons: Because they have no internal control over their minds and feelings They are terrified of uncertainty They are programmed for centuries to think that having power OVER others and their surroundings is real power. But the truth is, REAL POWER comes from within and can NEVER be taken from you. Ever. Are you sure Val, it seems like I keep giving my power away to make everyone around me happy, to fit in, and to not make too many waves? YES. I am sure sweetie. We ALL are born with REAL POWER. However, many of us are afraid of OWNING our power and taking 111% responsibility for our joy and prosperity, so we allow our POWER to be CONCEALED. As a recovering people-pleaser, I was there and still struggle sometimes with this factoid. It may appear as though we are giving our power away, but it is simply CONCEALED. You see the fact that YOU ARE HERE means you have a DUTY to thrive and be alive. Of the TRILLIONS and TRILLIONS and TRILLIONS and TRILLIONS of little sperms that DID NOT reach the egg - there was ONE that did and that lucky lotto winner made YOU baby! Think about it. Throughout ALL space and time from the dawn of creation, there is ONLY 1 sperm and 1 egg that could create the ONE and ONLY Divine YOU! Your only job is to BE YOU! But Val, how does all this relate to power and people not getting along? Thank you for asking. Our job is NOT to TAKE OUR POWER BACK. Nope. It is to REVEAL what we CONCEAL in order to please others, fit in, and keep the “peace”. Our power is ALWAYS within us. We have been maliciously and systematically programmed for thousands of years to succumb to other people’s way of thinking, fearing, and being and NOT to question authority or disturb the peace for a primal survival fear of being exiled from the “tribe’. We have been programmed via business, media, governments, and religions: how to behave what we should desire what is success what is “God” how to look what to think what NOT to think what to fear how to cope what is bad what is good what is wrong what is right who to love who to hate who has value who has no value Well……..Fuck that. I am here on Earth to wake the F-up, live authentically, and love unconditionally. Sounds pretty simple yet riddled with second guessing, fear, and doubt. In the Bitcoin Community we hear the phrase: FUD - Fear. Uncertainty. Doubt. These are three demons that are used to change people’s thoughts and influence their behavior that is not in their own best interest. It’s used everywhere, not just against the Bitcoin Community. Political strategists use FUD. Marketers use FUD. Religions use FUD. Media uses FUD. Gee Val, that sounds lame. I am exhausted and don’t have time or energy for this. That’s EXACTLY the intended result. Humans only have so much mental energy each day and we battle decision fatigue and make poor choices because we are stressed, afraid, confused, exhausted, and overwhelmed. (that’s why they put candy at the checkout lane) In marketing and sales, they say a confused mind doesn’t buy. The same principle applies in everyday life. The confused mind doesn’t decide. Who cares Val, I have my remote, a glass of wine and Netflix- leave me alone . You care. I know you do. So do I. So do billions of other people. But collectively we have allowed ourselves to be SLOWLY conditioned to reach for whatever gives us short-term relief from discomfort of being human (drugs, sex, booze, tv, social media, games, gambling, food, money, etc). We don’t DECIDE to do the work necessary to cultivate and REVEAL our true power. We are afraid of it. We don’t DECIDE to live our values to the fullest. And by not deciding, we conceal our power and allow OTHERS to DECIDE for us. Others who DO NOT have your best interest at heart. We have allowed entire industries to persuade power-hungry politicians to allow laws that HARM you. Alcohol is a poison that harms your brain in any amount. Yet it is socially accepted and we are NUMB with the effects of drinking. According to the World Health Organization over 3 million people DIE every year because of alcohol related accidents and disease. That’s crazy yet the industries that profit from this lobby to keep their poison widely available. Why? It’s not just the money. It’s mind control. Your mind. Their control. I think of the Red Hot Chili Peppers… “Give It Away Give It Away Give It Away Now” We are slowly giving away our rights and freedoms because we are EXHAUSTED. We are allowing the mainstream media to destroy democracy. We are allowing mainstream media and the advertisers to radically divide our country and OUR PLANET. Another marketing tactic that is being used is to “create an enemy”. US vs THEM It works every time. The game is you decide if you are on the US or THEM side. Of course “US” are the good guys and “THEM” are the bad guys. It’s used in religion, politics, business, media, etc. It is a simple control tactic because it feeds off the survival instinct to be a part of a “tribe”. But here’s the rub…… There is ONLY 1 Tribe. It is the EARTH TRIBE. If evil aliens attacked “US” - we would all join forces as the “HUMAN RACE - the EARTH TRIBE” and fight together. So NOW our job is to join together and fight the common enemy: FEAR UNCERTAINTY DOUBT The world is in a crisis with no end in sight. On this path, it is NOT getting better my friends. And NO ONE is coming to save us. WE MUST CULTIVATE and REVEAL our TRUE POWER and join together to: Heal our bodies, minds, and souls Heal climate change Heal generational and cultural trauma Create a fair financial future for ALL Have FUN while doing all of the above I am calling on each one of YOU to step forward into your birthright which is POWER. Power to love Power to lead Power to forgive Power to heal Power to grow Power to take action Power to use your voice for good Power to be responsible for your joy Power to open your heart to compassion Power to BE Divinely POWERFUL. You do not have to default to what mainstream media, religion, business, nor politics say is true. DYOR - Do Your Own Research. Look within. Use your own DIRECT EXPERIENCE to DECIDE what gives you JOY and PEACE. Is what you read in the headlines actually true? DYOR Are you ACTUALLY too big, small, wide, too much, not enough? Or is that brainwashing media trying to sell you something? Look in your HEART and SOUL - YOU decide. Not those fuckers. You are BEAUTIFUL and PERFECT just the way you are baby! Listen to “Wednesday Night” by Dubtribe - It will change your life. So, to wrap up here, you never gave away any of your power, it’s just been neglected and concealed. Your job is to CULTIVATE and REVEAL it and heal your heart. The world needs the one and only OG YOU! Let’s go because the clock is ticking. I call on YOU to do ONE SIMPLE THING NOW that brings you POWERFUL JOY in this moment. If it feels good, do it again. That’s it. That’s your REAL POWER in action. Now get to it and let me know how it goes. Peace, Love, and Warm Aloha, DJ Valerie B LOVE - The Vibe Goddess 💜
- Burning Fiat Man
Aloha Beautiful One, In my work as a meditation teacher and DJ, I share treasures of actionable inspiration designed to help you raise your vibes, rock your dreams, and become unruggable. I hope they help you enjoy a more delicious, meaningful & fulfilled life. Did someone say Burning Fiat Man? “WTF is that”? you ask. Yesterday marked another end to a week of Burningman on the playa in Nevada. A yearly pilgrimage of rebels, truth-seekers, misfits, innovators, artists, and badasses who desire radical self-expression, freedom and practice self-responsibility. Sound familiar? Bitcoiners also share this ethos and now that Satoshi Nakamoto bestowed the gift of Bitcoin on humanity, we now have a tool to co-create a more free, inclusive and fair world with this pure form of money. What is money? What is fiat? Why does it matter? What Is Money? Nik Bhatia’s book “Layered Money” and Saifadean Ammous’s book “The Bitcoin Standard” help explain what is sound money on a deeper level but here are main components: Durability Portability Divisibility Uniformity Limited Supply Acceptability What Is Fiat? Fiat means “by decree” so when Nixon took the United States off of a gold standard in 1971 and decided to just have money be “by decree” everything started falling apart. Why Does It Matter? What we are seeing now is a catastrophic aftermath of that decision and since the US dollar is not backed by anything other than “don’t worry - trust us- we’re good for it”, we are witnessing the inevitable collapse of the current fiat system of “something for nothing - debt spiral- money printer go brrrrrrrr” decisions by an elite unelected few. The biggest problem with the current fiat system is that central bankers can decide to simply “print” more money to fund wars, special interests and operating expenses which dilutes every dollar in existence. That means that if you hold dollars in your savings account, under your bed, or wherever, they automatically lose purchasing power. During the pandemic, the Fed added 40% more dollars to the total money supply of dollars. Guess what that did to those Benjamins under your bed? You were just legally stolen from and didn’t even know it. That is the fiat system. That is F-d up. Burning Fiat Man was a little celebration that a few very special Bitcoiners and I did this past weekend to mark the inevitable downfall of the current system and welcome in the new, proof of work based system called Bitcoin. No central human authority controls Bitcoin. You can’t just add some zeroes on a ledger and magically make more. It requires energy and work to reveal a new Bitcoin every 10 minutes. It is the world’s first truly pure and sound money. It’s math. Its supply is limited. It is durable, uncensorable and decentralized. It is digital and easily portable It is uniform and predictable It is divisible into smaller units called Satoshis It is inclusive and anyone can opt in to accept it Fiat has an unlimited and uncertain supply hence an inferior form of money. Bitcoin fixes this. It’s a long journey on this revolution to a fair and free new world. I never really knew what money was, let alone sound money until I started studying Bitcoin. I never knew how the current fiat system is so corrosive to the fabric of humanity and how it has excluded billions of people across the globe from opportunities afforded to only the few lucky ones. I never knew. But now I do and I am on a mission to learn more and more each day and share what I learn with you. Our children deserve a better future and Bitcoin is one tool to give them that chance. The goal of a safe, happy, and harmonious planet requires a multi-dimensional approach to solving the biggest problems and if we have a fair form of money as a foundation, we have a much higher probability to achieve that goal. There is no quick fix or magic solution for a more peaceful and just planet. It will require internal deprogramming and reprogramming from the old fiat mindset. It will require open hearts, daily discipline, and collaboration. It will require patience and compassion. It will require each of us to do our part to become educated and empowered with the truth. It will require us to share and teach others what we discover. It will require each of us to NEVER GIVE UP. I believe we can and are doing this. Now is the time to rise up, do your own research, exercise your freedom of choice, and align with others who share your values and mission for humanity. As the old saying goes “If not now when? If not you, who”? The time is now and WE are the ones we’ve been waiting for. No one is coming to rescue you. Welcome to Burning Fiat Man. Peace, LOVE, & Warm Aloha DJ Valerie B LOVE - The Vibe Goddess 💖 Host - Bitcoin, Peace & Music Podcast 11x LOVE Project
- NEVER Ever Give Up
Where do YOU draw your inner-badass strength from? Is it consistent positive self-talk? Is it looking in the mirror and telling yourself all the EPIC things that are TRUE about you? Is it following heart-leaders and thought-leaders that you admire? Is it listening to podcasts and interviews that shift your perspective? Is it reading books and articles from those who have gone before you? Is it taking courses to elevate and empower your body, mind, and soul? Is it a daily practice of flow, meditation, singing, dancing, writing, creating, being, and moving? Is it being in nature? Is it attending retreats, conferences, and workshops from other badasses like you? Is it surrounding yourself with exceptional humans who are also on a mission to make the world better than we found it? Is it giving and receiving in a variety of communities and families of like-hearted people? Is it ALL OF THE ABOVE? Of course it is. And much much more. The dance of badassery is an ever-evolving experience that as fellow humans we are gifted with sharing together. As an introvert and highly sensitive person, (yes DJs can be introverts) I sometimes get overwhelmed in large groups and used to self-medicate with red wine to attempt to feel comfortable and “fit in”. Well, that turned into a full-blown self-destructive dependency that nearly cost me my life and my beloved family and friends. I am BEYOND lucky and blessed to have made it through hell and am on a mission to share my experience, strength, and HOPE with YOU. We ALL go through F’d-up times that can bring us to our knees and SNAP! The problem is feeling ALONE and ASHAMED because we used to have our shit together and now we don’t. Social media, Hollywood, and mainstream media are multi-billion dollar industries that POISON our souls and minds and trick us into thinking that life is supposed to be a FAIRY TALE and that in order to live this FAIRY TALE we need to buy their crap so we can not be losers. Everyone looks PERFECT and that is the false story that is being programmed into our collective consciousness and we are all dying a slow and painful death of our hearts because we are told we are NOT GOOD ENOUGH, not ______enough, etc. As humans it’s imperative that we BELONG to a “tribe” for our basic survival. If we feel we don’t BELONG, we do all sorts of crazy shit to fix that otherwise we think we will suffer and die alone. Media empires and advertisers know this basic fact and viciously manipulate it to sell you stuff that you don’t really need and won’t actually make you feel better. What we are actually seeking is a way to fill our SOUL HOLE. We attempt to fill our SOUL HOLES with the “5-Deadly D’s” Diamonds -(money-shopping-gambling-workaholic) Drugs - (booze-drugs-substances) Digital - (social media - TV-gaming -status) Donuts - (food - eating disorders) Dicks - (sex-attention-body obsession) All of these are fine and healthy……….in moderation. The problem is they become crutches for feeling better in a very confusing and stressful world and that can lead to abuse and addiction, even for the STRONGEST badasses. They provide short-term pleasure with dopamine doses and leave our frazzled minds and bodies craving more. In my 5+ decades of life, what I discovered as absolute truth is that we are ALL seeking a safe, stable, consistent, and loving connection with the DIVINE. Your version and my version of the DIVINE may be colored differently because of cultural differences and religious upbringing. But the DIVINE is the DIVINE is the DIVINE no matter what you call it. Just call it. And listen to the call of your SOUL. You are NOT ALONE. We all need to “Remember to Remember” To Remember Who You Truly Are and Why You Are Here. I believe we are here to LOVE and BE LOVE. All of the amazing things in life like: Money Mindset Technology Music Art Healing Nature Community Meditation Movement Sex Are simply tools to help you achieve this MISSION to LOVE and BE LOVE. They make it EASIER, more effective, and more fun. So my BELOVEDS, let’s ROCK this together and remember to remember to: NEVER GIVE UP. WE GOT THIS! Whoohoo! Enjoy this moment……. Inhale LOVE…………. Exhale PEACE……….. Spread YOUR Sparkle everywhere you go! My wish for you in this moment is a LOVING HUG to your heart. May it fill you with peace and overflow into your one and only sacred life. Bug Hugs and Warm Aloha- DJ Valerie B Love - The Vibe Goddess
- WTF is Wrong with Me?
I don’t want to write, speak, record, create, nada. WTF? I LOVE to create and share yummy goodness with people. What’s WRONG with me? Nothing honey buns, you are healing and recovering from some heavy trauma. But I want it to be over. I want to be HEALED and back in action. Healing is a PROCESS and takes time, especially inside out healing. Yeah, but everything is ok, I am safe in this moment. I am OK so why does my body tremble and my heart pound and fill with terror? You have PTSD sweetie. The car crash. The hospital. The fires. The abuse. Moving. Motherhood. The near-death. Covid. The loss. The divorce. The whole kit 'n' kaboodle. Yeah but I am the badass Vibe Goddess. I am supposed to be able to handle it. Yes, that is true and you are. Part of “handling it” is simply being easy on yourself and resting. Yeah but I was given a second, third, fourth, etc chance at LIFE and I feel if I don’t DO something big and GIVE BACK to everyone else then I am wasting those chances and being a selfish jerk. Sunshine, how can you GIVE from an EMPTY cup? Impossible. FILL that baby up. Relax. WE are here. WE got your back Val. WE LOVE YOU. Thanks. I needed to hear that. I forget sometimes that I need to GIVE back to myself. But I just feel so guilty that SO many people are suffering everyday and I feel like I am supposed to do MORE because I have been SO blessed. Sugar, your ONLY job is to BE LOVE. You can only do what you can do. That’s it and that’s enough. It’s NOT your job to save the world and fix everything. You don’t have that power honey. The ONLY power you have is to CHOOSE to BE LOVE NOW . When you do that, you DO help others and you know it. So my LOVE, get to it. OK I will. THANK YOU. I LOVE You! I will start by INHALING LOVE..2…3…4… hold…EXHALING PEACE..2…3….4….hold… Ahhhhhh…….I already feel better and stronger. Yay! Haha - see Val - you just created something and are sharing it. Nothing is wrong with you. You ARE LOVE.
- Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. vs Eminem vs Sperm Consciousness
(I know the title is a little odd, trust me you’ll see, read on. ) Dearly Beloved Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. oh what a tremendous impact your short, sacred life has made on billions of spiritually dehydrated souls. Billions. Thank you. This morning I was meditating and thinking of you and peace, and what does peace really mean and how can we experience it consistently. I was thinking of all the “power over” programming that has been aggressively shoved down our throats for tens of thousands of years. The sheer fear, lack, and stupidity of how supposedly civilized humans behave and how they desire to own, control, and manipulate other people via violence is equivalent to the unevolved knuckle-dragging caveman consciousness. Or is it even an evolutionary spiral lower down to the sperm vibration, the sperm consciousness, the sperm programming that causes men, yes mostly men, to practice this power-over, violent mindset and way of being and acting in the human form? The consciousness of the sperm is of true scarcity. Life or death scarcity. The sperm energy IS the quintessential consciousness, the “vibration” of life or death scarcity. The sperm lives its whole life with only one objective, one consciousness, one “program” which is to get inside that life-giving egg no matter what or it DIES. To survive and pass on its genetic code, a sperm must be stronger, faster, more powerful than the other nearly 500 billion sperm produced by the male human in his lifetime. It’s like Eminem - You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow This opportunity comes once in a lifetime, yo Eminem - Lose Yourself [HD] To me this EPIC track by Eminem represents this DO or DIE vibe. But, it is actually an evolved version of the sperm do or die vibe. I’ll explain how in a bit….. It is my belief that the immature, competitive, power-over, dominating, controlling energy stems from this baseline survival energy and that it expresses itself in the form of violence when not nurtured by and pushed to evolve and merge with a higher life-affirming consciousness. The feminine consciousness. The feminine vibration is a receiver, nurturer, and expander of life. Alone, the masculine- “sperm consciousness” and the feminine “egg consciousness” are impotent. The masculine and feminine MUST have each other in order to not only survive but to co-thrive in delicious harmony and keep life moving right along. WE, the masculine and feminine, need to nurture, encourage, and celebrate each other’s differences and align our strengths so we can evolve to the next spiral of consciousness. Together. As I was pulling a card this morning during my playful prosperity practice (more on that in future posts), I asked the deck and my guides about the life mission I share with Mr. Bitcoin Burrito-Man. (who I am currently manifesting and magnetizing - more on that in future posts too) “HARMONY” “You are able to feel a loving, balanced connection with everything” Yeah but………. Being human is hard. Being a fulfilled human is realllllllly hard. As an ever-evolving humble human who deeply knows that balance is bullshit , I have adapted my mindset and my work to empower myself and others with tools to experience harmony in all areas of life in service of co-thriving as ONE infinitely interconnected, life-affirming planet. It makes my heart sing to see the Harmony card and that affirms this is my path and the one I share with my soulmate. As a natural-born skeptic, I never used to believe in “cards” and “guides” but I have been proven wrong and it’s changed my life forever. I’ll be doing an episode on that in the near future. I am a super macro thinker and view life through the lens of a dynamic, holistic Universal field that is ever-evolving and interconnected and interdependent. To me the supreme goal of a fulfilled life is to create and enjoy the dance of harmony among the infinity of the infinity of the infinity. Once I learned that I am the designer of my destiny based on how I choose to view the world and assign meaning to my experience in it, I became a happier woman. This doesn’t negate me from taking action to build my destiny. It doesn’t mean I am just going to sit here passively like the feminine “egg consciousness” and “attract” my happy life. Nope. It is the vision and the action that create change, growth, and peace. The second card I chose was from a different deck and I asked about what I need to see for myself today related to Dr. King and it was: “Making Peace With My Today Will Improve My Future” It speaks of the perils of holding yourself in a negative vibrational alignment if you focus on the injustices of your current situation and that it doesn’t allow for an improved situation. So I asked my little ol’ self how do harmony and making peace with today relate to Dr. King, Eminem, and sperm consciousness? My synthesis on this is that our lives depend on sperm energy to launch the dance of new life and that in order to truly co-thrive in harmony, we need to evolve our global consciousness to that of infinite abundance and leading from the power within. Eminem’s lyrics are the evolved version of sperm energy because he is calling on the power within to win the battle. Not clobbering opponents over the head with a wooden club. He is calling on his internal superpowers to do better NOW than ever before, to evolve into the FLOW state, the higher vibrational state of the NOW. You better lose yourself in the music The moment, you own it, you better never let it go I believe Dr. King’s mandate for non-violence is of course the evolved, life-affirming energy. So by focusing on creating and enjoying harmony for all the infinite parts and pieces of the human race and life on Earth, WE can create an opus, a masterpiece, a symphonic tapestry of LOVE, peace, and joy for all. An action step that I am taking today is to appreciate all the differences we have as humans and how they can mix together to create a song rather than noise. Just imagining it now is making me feel good with a higher vibe and smile. A second action step is to take ownership for my inner peace and view my situation with gratitude and curiosity for the nuggets of wisdom and growth rather than entertaining any judgement, lack, or disappointment. When I focus on self-joy and self-elevation, I feel zero desire to control my surroundings or the people around me. The third action step is to heighten my compassion and open my heart even further to the malnourished masculine sperm energy and remind all the magnificent men in my life how much I see and appreciate their inner strength and how powerful they are. What will your action step(s) be today to live a more peaceful and harmonious life? Please share with me;-) Don't forget to subscribe to the free LOVE Notes where I share what's making my life and the world better this week. Until next time my Beloved Love Tribe Peace, LOVE, and Warm Aloha DJ Valerie B LOVE - The Vibe Goddess💖 https://thekingcenter.org/about-tkc/martin-luther-king-jr/ https://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/eminem/loseyourself.html
- 8th Wonder of the Wolrd
1111 Peace Park Project “When we build it, we will thrive” This was the relentless rallying call of the fearless freedom warriors. The call dwindled to a faint whisper and near extinction as the automaton slaves and their Kraken masters violently rejected and fought the warriors' attempts at creating a free and fair world for all. In 2069, after their warrior leader pulled a “Satoshi”, disappearing forever, the warriors went into a dark period as most communication channels had been compromised, energy sources had been monopolized by violent rulers, money was used as a tool for surveillance and behavior modification, and the food and water supply were contaminated by corporations and chemicals. The band of warriors relied on the incorruptible time chain and sympathetic resonance for secret communication. The methodology involved the simple fact that 24 times a day it is 11:11. The freedom warriors knew in order to succeed in bringing freedom and flourishing to the human race and planet Earth, they would have to do it in a disguise so clever that the Kraken would be mistaken that it was the one in control. 113 years prior to the “Grand Surprise” of 2111, a beautiful man, Chris Deckker, had a vision for peace on Earth and synchronizing dance floors across the planet by playing a song called “Prayer for Peace” at the same time and so began the global phenomenon “Earth Dance”. He knew that by creating a tapestry of cohesive intentions and united vibrations around Earth, the heart of humanity could be uplifted and healed. The problem was that Earthdance was only once a year and this was not nearly enough to shift from violence and hate toward lasting peace and love on Earth. The internet was not yet ubiquitous in 1998 when Earthdance began and communications were centralized and controlled by a few mega-corporations in bed with governments. Over the coming seven decades, governments and big tech became even stranger bedfellows leading to a techno revolt by Bitcoiners who sought freedom of expression and exchanging value as they saw fit as sovereign individuals. These Bitcoiners value freedom, consciousness expansion, sovereignty, responsibility, fairness, truth, love, and peace. Their mysterious messiah Satoshi Nakamoto inspired their relentless pursuit to co-create a world where all humans have an opportunity to thrive and be in charge of their destiny. They knew a key to success was the massive decentralization of food, energy, communication, and money. But the Kraken was lurking at every turn aiming to snatch up every last morsel of freedom humans had. Once the sovereign Bitcoiners realized their freedoms were being slowly vacuumed up with an atomic strength soul-sucking systematic brainwashing campaign, they leaped into action with what they knew best; Math. “If you want to find the secrets of the universe, think in terms of energy, frequency, and vibration.” — Nikola Tesla The power of the Bitcoin network lies in its decentralized nature, immutability and incorruptibility. On 2/22/2022 a small but mighty group of Bitcoiners started doing group, virtual meditation on a regular basis at 11:11 every day and noticed a drastic magical change in their lives. They were feeling happier, healthier, lighter, more powerful, more peaceful, and more content. They couldn’t explain it but all of the dedicated practitioners experienced this phenomenon. All of them. A mystical creature who was called the Vibe Goddess was quietly using music, light, color, words and vibrations to heal herself and others, was the one who started this meditation practice but stayed hidden for fear of retaliation of the Kraken which had already attempted to destroy her in the past, and nearly succeeded. Most who met her rejected her and thought she was an alien from another dimension. She was. Everyone is. The dimension one is in when they are in their Mother’s womb is another dimension. The dimension one is in when they hear a child’s laughter is another dimension. The dimension one is in when they are making ecstatic love is another dimension. The dimension one is in when they grieve a deep loss is another dimension. The dimension after life is another dimension. The dimension before life is another dimension. These are just a few of many. This alien Vibe Goddess struggled like a mermaid out of water on Earth but she always kept her original spark, her Divine Vibe, activated even in the most violent and darkest nights of the soul. What got and kept her sane on Earth was her music and meditation practice at 11:11 every day. Many times a day she tuned in with “God” , “the Great Mystery”, “Source”, “the Universe”, whatever one calls the great creative power of all, along her cosmic angels and guides and she chanted, prayed, danced, and wrote as she set alarms for 11:11, 1:11 and other :11 times. She learned that thousands of people were doing this across the planet. She was a Bitcoiner and her freedom loving spirit knew that if she could engage millions then billions of people across the world do this simple yet profound daily practice, the Kraken would be weak against the network effect of the vibration of love. But which words? Which vibration? Simply chanting into a state of love in the heart center by feeling the heart resonate with “Om” similar to cicadas and their calls, humans have their own baseline of sonic heart connections. Again, there were naysayers who say this is pseudo-science but the proof is in the pudding. People who started these 11:11 practices started noticing drastic shifts in their inner and outer lives for decades to come. In 2069 the Kraken had developed a mind-control mechanism called the “Soul Sucker” to jam the signals of any humans that were “misbehaving”. Including meditating. The power of the meditators was a clear threat to the evil power of the Kraken. The rulers and its tentacles of human slaves made it their aim to smash free will, and extinguish the divine sparks of all humans to consolidate even more grip over everyday Earthlings. The directive of the Kraken to its tentacles was to unleash a “mind virus” through all communication channels with the end goal of causing a spiritual amnesia where humans forget who they are and why they are here on Earth. Because these freedom meditators had developed such disciplined minds and hearts, they were able to sometimes resist the sheer force of the Kraken’s signal jammer. But not always. The Kraken knew precisely how to slowly debilitate the fighters and had far more resources to conduct coordinated and consistent attacks. But there was something happening in the dark ages after the Vibe Goddess disappeared. The freedom warriors started training to switch their frequencies so rapidly, to “SNAP” from one mind state to another, they were able to outsmart the Kraken temporarily for themselves, yet they had difficulty linking up with other warriors like they did so freely before at 11:11, 24 times a day. The Kraken’s minions were embedded everywhere so it was difficult, nearly impossible for the fighters to communicate freely. In 2077 the mind-controlling Kraken launched a global project to build and interconnect thousands of energy parks around the world so they could reign in even more energy to attempt to control the Bitcoin network with a sustained 51% attack. The Bitcoin network requires energy to maintain its fortress of security and to create new a Bitcoin block approximately every 10 minutes. When compared to the astronomical budgets and intense energy expenditures of the military industrial complex across all nations, it is a fraction of energy use in service of creating the most immutable, unhackable, permissionless, inclusive sound money ever known to mankind. The limited supply cap of Bitcoin was also an incentive for the switch away from the fiat ponzi scheme of money printing which lead to hyperinflation, poverty, and great suffering for billions of helpless, enslaved people across hundreds of countries. By 2069, Bitcoin had been adopted widely by billions of people around the world in an attempt to separate value transfers among peers from being censored by their own governments. The Kraken believed if it could just get enough of the micro-nuclear power parks joined around the world, then it could destroy the Bitcoin network solidify its position as an undefeatable superpower. So of course the anonymous freedom fighting Bitcoiners knew they needed to get jobs working on these projects in order to see what the Kraken was up to and to intervene if possible to sabotage the projects. Decades go on as the energy park project expands and many of the freedom fighters start to gradually lose hope because of the immense internal energy it takes to keep signal switching to avoid the brainwashing of the Kraken. Being in the Kraken sphere of doom proved fatal for some of the fighters who did not have a strong enough energy body to defend against the constant bombardment of hostile energy. Yet those who started tuning in to the sounds of the mempool and tik tok next block”, started feeling something they heard about that their ancestors felt when they were tuning into 11:11. With a faint spark of hope and possibility while living under the Kraken cloak of doom and bondage, the freedom warriors quietly sang to themselves the sounds of “tik tock next block” and “Om”, similar to the slave songs and songs of the civil rights movement. This is the reason plantations banned slaves in the 1700’s from having drums because they were a tool for communication and rebel uprising. They started feeling more energy and strength each day and had a deep validation that they were on the right path with “God” /“The Universe” and to stay the course and keep tuning in and connecting with the Bitcoin timechain. The sympathetic resonance among practitioners grew exponentially as the warriors stayed the course of love and truth. The Kraken energy parks grew each year and sprawled across the planet in hundreds and hundred of beautiful locations. The brainwashed locals in each community were appreciative of having a place to bring their kids, enjoy nature, and to connect with each other. But there was always danger lurking in public places with the mind-control of the “Soul Sucker”. When humans were in their homes, some of them devised their own Kraken signal jammers which protected them from the clutches of daily attacks by the Kraken. But self-protection was more difficult to do when leaving the safer confines of their homes. Humans became too afraid to gather in person for fear of their minds being stolen never to return to their sovereign baseline. The food supplies were contaminated and maliciously engineered to weaken the ability of humans to revolt against the mighty Kraken. The Kraken sought to destroy and control Mother Nature for its own benefit of poisoning and weakening the human psyche and body. Even after the 2076 “Node War” where the Kraken successfully dismantled over 100 million Bitcoin nodes across the planet, countless more remained. The Kraken knew it could gain control over all the value and behavior in the world if it could succeed at garnering enough energy to sustain that 51% attack indefinitely. The Kraken had launched “Operation Insanity Project” in 2077 at the same time they began building the energy parks and had accelerated their mass mind-control assault over everyday citizens. The freedom fighters were forced to double, triple, even 11x down on their efforts to resist the Kraken mind-control which in turn gave them super-human powers like the yogis and monks of thousands of years past. But they were in the dark and didn’t know how many of their fellow warriors there actually were because of the communication channels being compromised and how dangerous it was to speak freely with other humans. So for the next 33 years, the warriors worked vigilently on their mind signal switching, SNAPPING, and they became so in tune with the Kraken frequencies and patterns as well as their own inner strength, they were able to gain traction and exponential leaps of power with their daily practice, even in the midst of the Kraken’s onslought of negative vibrations. Their ultimate mission was to stay aligned with truth and love and to always remember who they are and why they are here on Earth. They knew if they could achieve this mission and help others do the same, they had a chance at defeating the vile Kraken. As all of the energy parks kept sprawling across the planet, everyday citizens started tuning into the mystical sounds of Om and the timechain but they were not consciously aware of it. It was just happening in the background of their slave mind-patterns. Those who visited the parks regularly started noticing shifts on their consciousness, feeling more hopeful and lighter but couldn’t explain why. It was one thing to connect with each other over technology but when humans are gathering in person, something indescribable occurs that elevates their states of consciousness and inner power beyond measure. When people see each other smile and giggle, their defenses drop. When people hug and embrace, their nervous systems settle down. When people high-five and nod their heads, their sense of connnection deepens. When people move their bodies in rhythm, they solve problems more effectively. When people sing the same songs in time, their hearts and souls resonate and elevate. They begin to remember who they are and why they are here. When more ordinary humans began to trust, allow, and receive this miracle transmission each day, something strange started to occur. The Kraken became even more aggressive and frenetic in its attempts to control and poison the minds of humans across the globe. The Kraken army of evil amplified its “Operation Insanity Project” by attempting to embed corrupt code, the mind virus, into the human minds and pit friend against friend and brother against brother. Mothers were devastated seeing the children hurt each other with such violent disregard for truth, love, and family. But not all was lost. What happened on 11/11/2111 was the prophecy given by the Vibe Goddess before her unsolved disappearance. She implored the freedom fighters over 8 decades prior to focus on building and fortifying their inner peace parks as temples of strength and salvation. She had a vision that once the internal work was consistent, the external peace parks would soon follow for all humans to engage with and benefit from. “When we build it, we will thrive” was the mantra of the warriors. What her vision didn’t anticipate was that the Kraken would be the one unknowingly building the peace parks. Everyday like clockwork, the freedom fighters were at their “jobs” building and maintaining the energy parks across the planet, they were singing, meditating, and signal switching when out of the blue a blinding light appeared at all of the energy parks accompanied by a sonic boom of such magnitude every living being froze in their tracks. The Earth began to vibrate and shake gently everywhere. The energy parks began to hum at a low frequency that it calmed a situation that would have otherwise been mass chaos for everyone in a 500 mile radius of each park. What was happening underfoot was unprecedented and felt like the Earth beneath everyone’s feet was starting to gently move and vibrate like the waves of an ocean would under the hull of a boat. It was gentle enough not to knock anyone down but strong enough that everyone looked at each other in sheer astonishment. When the freedom warriors remembered their practice and stayed centered and tuned into tik tok next block and Om, they realized what had occurred. It was 11:11am GMT on 11/11/2111 For 89 years the freedom warriors had been training for this exact moment. The prophecy came true. The hearts and souls of the Earth were united by the mycelium-like network effect of the frequency of love. A tipping point had been reached and instead of escape velocity the humans had reached “escape vibration” from the evil Kraken’s grip. One could hear shrieks of defeat of the Kraken by the heroes from all corners of the globe. The heroes in this tale are all of the humans who tuned in to the frequency of love and peace in the face of terror, uncertainty, and fear. The freedom warrior Bitcoiners knew deep in their heart code that love is the highest form of value and that the timechain was a masterpiece preserving human energy, possibility, and love and humans began to believe in themselves and each other once again. The parks that were once used to generate energy to destroy the timechain were transformed by each community into majestic interconnected gathering places for all humans to celebrate peace, prosperity, diversity, love, and hope. There were artistic peace bridges at every park inspired by Gaudi’s Parc Guell and they were enhanced because all who visit were encouraged to leave a trace with a magic mosaic tile representing their unique presence and contribution to the 8th Wonder of the World: The 11:11 Peace Park Project. There were areas at each park with biodynamic and regenerative gardens, art, music, performance, healing, holistic education, playgrounds, meditation temples, energy centers, and of course the holo-domes, slides & peace bridges. When humans dance, laugh, sing, and play together they are less likely to fear each other or to hurt each other. The holo-domes and holo-playgrounds projected people holographically from all over to each other's peace parks. Giggles of children filled the airwaves as they slid down slides holographically next to another child from 3000 miles away. Every year on 11/11 all over the world a monumental anniversary celebration is marked by thousands of stages at the peace parks performing Satoshi the Cyber Opera. The celebrations are an homage to Satoshi Nakamoto, the creator of Bitcoin and to Chris Deckker the founder of Earthdance, who were both the seeds of love and inspiration for all of the peace parks around Earth. Mother Nature and all her creatures are now honored and revered for their gift of life and abundance to all, as humans prioritize living in harmony with her limitless beauty and generosity. 24 times a day around the world, on the :11 minute of every hour, humans from all walks of life joyfully do their part in tuning in to tik tok next block and Om and keeping the “escape vibration” at optimal levels in order to always keep the Kraken from reappearing and wreaking havoc and destruction on humans and their sacred hearts and planet Earth. The 8th Wonder of the World has now become an impenetrable tapestry of hope and love around the beloved planet Earth. And so the saga continues… tik tock next block.











